Summary No, You Shouldn’t ‘Date ’Em ’Til You Hate ’Em’ - The Atlantic www.theatlantic.com
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Don't be fooled by first impressions, as the excitement factor in dating is not as important as finding a fulfilling romance.
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Key Points
- The idea of the "spark" in a romantic relationship is not always a reliable indicator of compatibility.
- Dating coaches and scholars warn that even if there is no immediate chemistry, people can still fall in love with each other.
- The initial encounter with someone may not accurately represent their true qualities.
- Feeling drawn to someone at first sight could be due to familiarity or physical attractiveness.
- Slow burns and getting to know someone over time are becoming more valued over first impressions.
Summaries
19 word summary
First impressions can be misleading, but settling for a dull romance isn't necessary. The "spark" is overrated in dating.
50 word summary
First impressions can be unreliable, but settling for a boring romance isn't necessary. The idea of the "spark" is unrealistic and can be based on familiarity or physical attractiveness. Slow burns are now more valued, while first impressions and their misperceptions are losing significance. The spark isn't everything in dating.
96 word summary
First impressions can be unreliable, but that doesn't mean you have to settle for a boring romance. The idea of the "spark" is often portrayed in romantic comedies, but it's not a realistic expectation. Dating coaches and scholars have warned that even if you don't feel an instant chemistry, you might still fall for someone over time. The spark could be based on familiarity or physical attractiveness. Slow burns are becoming more valued, while first impressions and their misperceptions are losing significance. It's important to remember that the spark isn't everything when it comes to dating.